Every guy has been in this situation: a beautiful woman passes by on a sidewalk. How could a man approach her, right there on the street, and spark a conversation with her? Most people would never consider doing something like this, but to a woman, it can be very spontaneous and romantic.
Approaching a woman on the street can prevent you from missing what could be the opportunity of a life time. Here’s how you can spark her interest, make sure you catch her eye and engage a woman in a conversation that will make the situation romantic instead of awkward.
Almost every website, book or magazine written about how men can attract a woman will always mention how important eye contact is. Everybody knows this. If you see an attractive girl on the street, you need to make eye contact as soon as you can.
Don’t just make eye contact either, you need to also MAINTAIN eye contact, so she knows you’re looking at her. Once eye contact has been made, don’t look away, or you’ll come across as insecure. When your eyes meet, make sure she knows you are trying to get her attention. Wave, nod – something obviously attention getting.
There is nothing as welcoming and or as nonthreatening as a smile. You want to show her that you’re excited to see her, but also maintain a calm demeanor to assure her that you aren’t a complete nutcase. Just smile like a normal person. Express your happiness with a grin. It will calm her down, welcome her to you, and engage her in a conversation.
If you’re on a loud street, you’ll need to speak up. Make sure the ends of your sentences aren’t getting lost in the noisy bustle around you. This is particular important if she’s a distance away and not near enough to hear you talking at a normal volume. Stay calm and keep your words simple so she can understand.
You should never follow or run after a girl, trying to catch up to her. This shows how needy you are, and will definitely scare her off. There’s nothing more scary to a woman than being chased by a strange man. Anything more than walking in her direction is too much.
Instead, just hold your ground and ensure that she heard you and has made eye contact. Comment on something or compliment her, so she has a reason to slow down and talk to you. If you want to practice, I recommend complimenting a few random people throughout the day to see what kinds of responses you get. Note what works best so you’ll be prepared when the woman of your dreams walks by.
Using expressive hand gestures during your conversation will keep her attention on you. Out on the city street, it can be easy for a girl to get distracted, especially if she isn’t fully convinced that it was worth stopping to talk. Use your expressiveness to keep her eyes focused on you. Using your hands will also display confidence. So, you definitely shouldn’t keep your hands in your pockets with your shoulders slouched.
The key to stopping a busy woman on the street is accessing your confidence and then, of course, not losing it. You have to stand your ground. Don’t run after her; your eye contact and waving should be bold enough to convince her to stop. From there, you know what to do. Flirt, compliment, engage. Make her so intrigued by you that she wants to know more.
Stopping someone on the street who catches your eye can seem a little difficult if you don’t handle yourself correctly. The trick is getting her attention and then letting her know how honorable and honest your intentions are.